Why wives must not compliment mothers-in-law - Counsellor Carstensen

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Ghanaian relationship counsellor, Cyril George Carstensen has dropped a piece of advice to house-wives on how to treat their mother-in-laws. 

Speaking in an interview with TV3, he said, “Anyone who compliments the mother-in-law has a problem. Anyone nice to the mother-in-law will have a problem in the future. You will never be able to befriend your mother-in-law. It’s depravity and disrespect.

My wife and my mother will never be friends. They do not fi*ht, but they are unable to be friends. Respect must be present. The respect comes from the fact that she is an in-law, and you respect her on that level. You are not required to be nice to your mother-in-law.

Don’t address her as your mother. She is your wife’s mother-in-law. Don’t be shy about saying it. She is not your mother, but rather your husband’s mother. You will never be her daughter. Remember that.”  


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